Knowing how to blend styles is about compromise and creating a look you both love in your newly shared home.

Whether it’s a second marriage or a fresh chapter with someone new, the best home design honors both partners while feeling cohesive and inviting.

 

 

Combining with Style

Start by finding a common thread. A unifying wall color, a beautiful area rug, or even neutral upholstery can tie the look together and let your individual pieces shine. Think of it like designing a great outfit: structure and softness, masculine and feminine.

If you’re overwhelmed, a short session with a design professional can be invaluable. They can help you decide what to keep, what to refresh, and how to place it all with intention. You don’t need full-service interior design—just a few expert tweaks to get started.

And yes, there might be a time to retire the oversized recliner. Harmony at home is worth making room for the pieces you both feel good about.

A Quick Strategy to Get Started

Try this:

• Each person chooses 2–3 quality pieces they love.

• Then choose 2–3 sentimental items.

• Allow a “graceful veto” or two (no hard feelings—just good design boundaries).

If space allows, designate personal zones. A den, a home office, even a reading nook can be the perfect home for beloved items that don’t fit the shared aesthetic.

Mixing masculine and feminine? It works. It always works. Clean-lined furniture with soft florals, dark woods with light walls—the contrast creates warmth, texture, and character.

Go-To Pieces That Always Work

• Classic lamps (modern or vintage).

• Neutral rugs with texture.

• Soft window treatments like woven blinds or small-slat shutters.

• Framed mirrors to expand and reflect your space.

These staples create a foundation you can layer onto.

Mistakes to Avoid When Blending Styles

One common pitfall is trying to keep everything from both homes. While it’s never good to be wasteful, especially when furniture is good quality, too much mismatched furniture or too many accessories can make even a large space feel cluttered.

Aim for an edited look instead.

Another mistake? Avoiding compromise altogether. Design should reflect a dialogue, not a monologue. Look for the beauty in each other’s preferences and find ways to pair them well.

Ready to Blend Your Styles Beautifully?

If you’re blending households with a new spouse, you don’t have to guess your way through decorating.

Grab my free download, “Blending Homes the Second Time Around” that gives you the step-by-step strategy I use with my private clients to make merging households feel effortless.

You’ll also be the first to know when I open the doors to something really special later this year. For now, enjoy your download—and take the first step toward a home that truly feels like both of you.